Yea I know!!!

)  = half circle

() = Full circle

Are U a full circle?

People often dont realise that their desire to have a partner be it a girlfriend or boyfriend is so they can become a full circle () or a complete person. From the moment we are born we are one half and the first time we feel complete is when we first fall in love. Thing is its often just a quick fix and its hard to sustain that feeling of completness! 

Imagine u are one half and u meet someone that completes the circle for u. How good a feeling is it? U walk around with ur head in the clouds for months sometimes even years thinking you have found the person that makes you complete!

Then every so often u get this sensation that there must be something more out there, u start to doubt that ur relationship can give u complete satisfaction in the way it used to. Its like there's a voice in ur head saying 'this is as far as I can go' 'I want more' but due to feelings of guilt or fear of failure the voices get brushed aside and u continue on. Often pretending things are ok and hoping that the way you feel is just a phase.

If u have ever felt this way its completly normal of course! Back in the day couples used to stay together because they felt they had to. It was THE RIGHT THING TO DO! Meet someone fall in love, get married and have kids! There wern't as many options and getting devorced wasnt as socially accepted as it is now. Over the past 20 years or so things have changed. Equality has a massive part to play, both sexes getting equal opportunities in their careers and not being expected to take certain roles. Thats the way it should be of course. I think that everyone has the right to choose the way they wish to live their life and not be pressured into going down a certain path because thats what society expects! Bollocks to that!

Anyway, have u ever got the feeling that ur other half is zapping ur energy and playing games! If so you are experiencing control dramas. An example would be if you want to go out on a night out without ur bf/gf and they dont want u to (ring any bells?) they will use a control drama to make you feel guilty and take away ur energy. Often leading to arguments or u giving in! Which in turn gets u all frustrated and angry. Continued use of control dramas on either side will lead to the relationship failing. 

So my point is after a time many relationships fail and u become one half of that circle again ). The thing is most people feel that the only way to feel whole again is to find someone else and will run straight back into a relationship! BAD MOVE.

Im here to tell u the only way u will feel complete forever is if u can complete ur circle all by yourself! Thats where the Celestine Prophecies come in. If you want to know how to become a full circle () and have that feeling of completness, that feeling u get when u first start a relationship all your life without the need of someone else read that book.

And the best thing is if you can meet someone thats a complete person () too things dont get much better!

U can take from the book what u want but if it helps just a lil bit then its worth it, right?!? Basically tho the only way u can be happy with someone else is to be happy with yourself first!

Peace out,

AJ  

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what
to do for that person. When someone is in your life! for a
REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with a new path and give support, to aid you physically,
emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. 

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes
they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is
that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your
turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an
experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you
something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable
amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It
is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Q - My husband has too many nights out with the boys.

A - This is perfectly normal behaviour and should be encouraged. A night out chasing young single girls is great stress relief and can foster a more peaceful and relaxing home. Remember, nothing can rekindle your relationship better than the man staying away for a day or two. Just look at how emotional and happy he is when he returns to his stable home. The best thing for you to do when he returns home is do everything he asks and cook him a nice meal.

I love music! Its so good when a song takes you back to a time you enjoyed. When I was travellin I listened to soooo many songs over and over again, so now even when im sat back in boring Manchester I hear certain songs and im back in my campervan drivin around Australia!

Keane Hopes and Fears is v-good!

AJ

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Ive just finished listening to the Zero 7 Album Simple Things for the 1,000 time. Its just as good now as it was when I first heard it. If you've ever been away from someone that you care about track 3 Destiny is really good. Check it out!

AJ

Everyone feel free to make any comments or ask any questions.

AJ